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Showing posts with label Advices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Advices. Show all posts

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Be Happy

Everything that happens in this world, there is no absolute good or bad. Sometimes good things turned out to be bad things eventually, while bad things become a gain. Whatever good things that happen to you, enjoy it, but don’t have to hold too tight to it, treat it as a surprise in your life. Whatever bad things that happen to you, don’t feel too sad or despair, in the end, it might not be a total bad thing after all. If one can understand this, he or she will find life much easier.

To be good is not easy, but we still can be a good person if we trust ourselves to be good. One more thing, never say bad things about ourselves even many people say it.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

How Lucky We Are?

Everyday, we awaken with another chance at life. Sometimes we forget how lucky we are and we often forget to appreciate the little things around us that mean so much. Here’s a poem I wish to share with all of you thank you for being a part of this wonderful group.

Too often we don’t realize what we have until it is gone;
Too often we wait too late to say “I’m sorry. I was wrong.”
Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones we hold dearest to our hearts;
And we allow foolish things to tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let unimportant things into our minds;
And then it’s usually too late to see what made us blind.

So,
Be sure that you let people know how much they mean to you.
Take that time to say the words before your time is through.
Be sure that you appreciate everything you’ve got.
And be thankful for the little things in life that mean a lot.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

To the People of the World

This is the story that must be toldOf an Iraqi baby, not very oldLying in her crib one star-lit nightHow could she know of those planes in flight?She lay there quietly touching her noseWatching her mobile, wiggling her toesOohing and cooing, so sweetly is sheTalking to someone, who could it be?An angel is standing with her in the roomThe baby is smiling, unaware of her doomThe crib starts to shake and the mobile goes roundAnd suddenly comes a most deafening soundThe ceiling drops in, in a second or two On top of her crib so she ceases to cooNo one knows how long she lay thereWho thought about it? doesn't anyone care?Is she alive? is she dead? Is she in any pain?Now that you mention it, who knows her name?Her name is Amal. In English we say HopeCrushed between the rubble

Her tiny fingers start to grope"Where is my mummy? I love her so dearCome, get me mummy! It's dark in here!I'm scared and I'm hungry and I can't see my feetThere's blood in my mouth! Give me something to eat!Where is my daddy? Where's my big brother?It hurts when I breath! Where is my mother?!How long have I been here? Is this just a dream?I open my mouth, but can't even scream

That angel appears once again to my side,This time with a tear I plead, 'Why have I died?'Am I alone in my sufferings? No, there are many othersIn our grief and our misery, we are sisters and brothers
Who are we? I ask you... for what crime did we die?They're throwing a party! Doesn't anyone cry?!
Is it True? Am I nothing?! How could it be?Don't they also have babies, just like me?'It is war', they say, of which death is partHow blind they've become, how hardened of heart

Did someone say 'hero'? To whom do they speak?A victory claimed for killing the weak?!Why are they happy? Why are they proud?Don't they know that I'm cold in my burial shroud?!No war has been won; no ifs, buts, or maybes,They've only killed us innocent, helpless babies."

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Yesterday and Today

Yesterday was to learn and tomorrow will be the consequence of what I can do today.

Today I will face life with the conviction that this day will never return.

Today is the last opportunity I have to live intensely, as no one can assure me that I will see tomorrow’s sunrise.

Today I will be brave enough not to let any opportunity pass me by, my only alternative is to succeed.

Today I will invest my most valuable resource: my time, in the most transcendental work: my life.

I will spend each minute passionately to make of today a different and unique day in my life. Today I will defy every obstacle that appears on my way trusting I will succeed.

Today I will resist pessimism and will conquer the world with a smile, with the positive attitude of expecting always the best.

Today I will make of every ordinary task a sublime expression.

Today I will have my feet on the ground understanding reality and the stars’ gaze to invent my future.

Today I will take the time to be happy and will leave my footprint and my presence in the hearts of others.

Today I invite you to begin a new season where we can dream that everything we undertake is possible and we fulfill it.

Have a good day and a better one tomorrow.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Friends


friends are the flowers in the garden of life,

they help you through times of trouble and strife..
there's nothing like friends to make a heart sing,

true friends will share with you most everything..

they will not abandon you in times of need,

they aren't overcome by envy or greed..

friends are the icing on life'sgreat big cake,

real friends wiil give and allow you to take..

i don't know how i would survive without friends,

they applaud my beginnings and mourn my sad ends..

tell me,

please tell me,

what would i do??

if i didn't have a garden full of friends just like YOU!!









Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Smile

An unhappy rich woman sits sit impatiently on a bus stop bench.


WOMAN : What are you smiling for?
DOL: It’s what I do.
WOMAN : I won’t ask
DOL : I sell smiles for a living. Here, have a free smile from me (he smiles at her)
WOMAN : No thank you
DOL : Sorry, can’t take it back. You’ll have to give it to someone else.
WOMAN : What?
DOL : The smile. You’ll have to give it away if you don’t want it. Or sell it if you like – apparently it hasn’t been used much.
WOMAN : What do you mean by that?
DOL : You don’t smile very often, do you?
WOMAN : So what if I don’t?
DOL : You shouldn’t waste your smile. There’s plenty of people who could use one.
WOMAN : Well, they can have mine
DOL : Your what?
WOMAN : My smile.
DOL : I don’t se one.
WOMAN : I thought you just gave me one.
DOL : I tried, but it didn’t stick. I think it.
WOMAN : Fine. What’s there to smile anyway?
DOL : Well..
WOMAN : You don’t have to answer that.
DOL : There’s a lots of things to smile about.

It’s a beautiful day outside, the busses are running on time.

WOMAN : I don’t want to hear about it.
DOL : And look at that flower over there, now that would make anybody smile.

A long moment of silence. Finally, she gaves in.

WOMAN : So, what’s the going rate on smiles these days?
DOL : Pardon me?
WOMAN : Your smiles. How much are they?
DOL : Oh. They’re very expensive.
WOMAN : So is my taste.
DOL : You probably couldn’t afford one.
WOMAN : Try me.
DOL : I’m warning. It’ll cost you.
WOMAN : Yes I know. How much?
DOL : One smile
WOMAN : One smile?
DOL : That’s how much they cost.
WOMAN : What?
DOL : The price for a smile is exactly one smile. That’s the going rate. (He thinks about it)
WOMAN : Alright. (smiles) I’ll take one.
DOL : It was a pleasure doing business with you (He leaves)





So, smiles when we stil have one.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Hero

There's a hero
If you look inside your heart
You don't have to be afraid of what you are
There's an answer
If you reach into your soul
And the sorrow that you know will melt away

It's a long road
When you face the world alone
No one reaches out a hand for you to hold
You can find love
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt will disappear

Lord knows
Dreams are hard to follow
But don't let anyone tear them away
Hold on
There will be tomorrow
In time you'll find the way

And then a hero comes along
With the strenght to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
and you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
No need for you to find a hero..
Because the hero is inside yourselves..
Just see it deep in you heart..
And you can find it..

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Be Fun

Every days, I hope that I can let myself to have the air to breath. Because every second in university is about study. Sometimes it makes me bored to face the books.

One of the way to release my tension is to sit with my friends and talk about ourselves. Talking with them can bring a lots of laugh. Their jokes can make me feel better.

Sometimes, I tried to fresh my mind by seing the environments, one of the God's gift. Seing the green leaves with the blue skies can give me a peace feeling.

I also like to listen for a music when I am in stress. It can be a good way to reduce stress.

For me, all the ways above can be the best ways to reduce the pressure especially in study. It is depend on the person.

But, the most important thing is always be fun whenever and wherever you are.

So, lets get fun and njoy your days with the new feeling..